Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Church and Dedication


We recently returned to what we would consider our "home church"... Jeremy was practically born there :-), we met there, and were married there. Yes... we have the honor of being the very last royal blue wedding (the carpet was ripped up hours after our ceremony)! MCC will always have a special place in our hearts! While we were away MCC has done a lot of changing, including planting a church, and we are excited at all the new people we are meeting (and of course we love the long-time friends!). We feel truly feel blessed that God has led us to a congregation that is loving and supportive and holds so much history for us.


Our church has been going through a message series titled "Got Church?" It has been great to hear the heart of MCC, their core values, and be reminded why being in community at a church is so wonderful. Last week the message was "Loving Community." At one point in the service, Pastor Mark asked us to share with those around us a time when we felt the love of a church body. For us there were two obvious examples: communion and laundry... let me explain.

Our church family in Concord is a special part of our story. They walked through a difficult and yet joyful time with us as Lincoln spent the first two months of his life in the hospital. We will never forget how they supported us in prayer and in practical ways. Youth leaders stepped in and helped fill the gaps with our sudden delivery and shift in focus. They gave us gift cards and a love offering to eat out at places near the hospital so we could spend every moment we could with our sweet baby. And most amazingly Dena did our laundry...for two months... had us over for dinner and hilarious Howell/Brown puppet shows, and sent us home with fresh baked banana bread, cookies, or whatever she had whipped up that day (those of you who know Dena, know we were spoiled well!). Another group of that church family brought us communion when we were between churches, between worlds, and not really sure which end was up. They held us when we cried, carried/encouraged/pushed us through a healing process, and made us laugh until we couldn't breathe. Thank you, from the bottom of our hearts. You all have left an impression. We only hope to be a blessing to others the way you have blessed us.


Back to the present. Part of the series on Church included a time of child dedication during the service Sunday, and we were able to dedicate Lincoln! We know it is more traditional to dedicate a baby, but now seemed like the best time for us. When Lincoln was a baby we never felt the timing was right... not that we hadn't committed in our hearts to raise him in a loving Christian home where he would learn about God, because of course we had. But now that Lincoln is older we are learning what that commitment really looks like… and the need to be intentional. We are reading the Bible with him, teaching him about God’s character, telling him stories about God’s people, and praying with him. So, when we learned of the opportunity for child dedication in today's service, we couldn't shake the thought and we knew it was the right time. We wanted to stand up and commit to raise Lincoln in the church and ask the church to commit to walk alongside us in that journey.

We keep hearing God echo "community" in our lives... the need for it, the need to provide it, and the need to jump all in and be real. We finally feel like our time of transition... living between worlds... has ended, and we are "all in." We've chosen our church home, at least as long as God wants to keep us here - we won't stop listening just because we feel like we've found an answer. We are committing to raise Lincoln here, to invest into others in this church, and build a community we will do life with. We are committing to be real and authentic, to build meaningful relationships in this moment, and come alongside others with encouragement. For as long as God has us here we are all in... that's the only way we like to "do church.”

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Thank you for your beautiful compliments to our family. We love you, Jeremy, April and Lincoln more than words could express. We love seeing you flourish in God's love and purpose in your lives. We selfishly miss you but we know God has BIG plans for your beautiful family including a future marriage to a Howell named Charlie, so we can have our Charlie Brown.

Anonymous said...

What a blessing to see you flourishing in God's grace and plan for your lives. We love and miss you so much!
--Judy and gang